In your sorrows and in your longing, you are very likely not seeing the world, with all
its possibilities, as well as you could be seeing it. Likely, you are not fully alive to
the opportunities that may be coming your way. Possibly, also, the chances for deeper
understanding and reconciliation with your partner are being missed as well in your mutual
or personal agonies.
Unless you recognize these negative influences, they will rob you of your life. You
will spend your years in a shrouded world and never know how bright and personal the light
of love and higher consciousness can be. You will never know your true potential or
express it freely and productively.
Whether your marriage is going well or badly, you and your mate continually influence
one another. Your companionship is extraordinarily deep. You know and affect one another
on all levels. Being wedded, you have, in many ways, not only joined your physical beings
but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually you are fused and
diffused in one another. You are profound influences on one another.
Here is an exercise that you might wish to try alone, and together, in order to enrich
your companionship, or in order to renew and reestablish it.
If you practice this exercise alone...